Hints

Ok, we had the fight. It all came out. I informed my lady a few days later that I have changed my mind. At first I offered to let the scum stay here for 1 month. That's it. No longer. I figured no person in their right mind would pick up, move across country with a family with nothing to fall back on in case things turn out bad ( can't get a job, car breaks, kid gets sick). A 1 month stay is not very long. Well, I was wrong. It appears that the scum did not want to stay up there at all and were seriously considering making the move fully knowing they were only welcome to stay for 1 month, regardless of finding a job or not.

I told my lady they are not staying here at all. I changed my mind, knowing that if he were not to find a job, the 1 month stay would end up being longer. Screw that. I am not hampering my life at all concerning these people.

It has been a few days since I advised my lady of that. She has been dropping hints......."oh I wish they were here, they could help me with this, that, etc......" crap like that. Then she says " I know you don't want them here" I then told her for the millionth time, I don't care where they move, it is nothing personal. I'm not supporting them. Period.

I know this is going to come up again. I really don't want to get angry with my wife about this, I can understand her way of thinking. She loves her grand children, and wants to see them. It is not her fault that both her sons or worthless. The one up north is the youngest, he is the one constantly asking his mom for assistance. This dude needs to grow the fuck up. Looks like now he is going to have too. Next time my lady brings the subject up, I am going to have to tell her that regardless of how many times this is mentioned, I am not changing my mind. Period.

On a high note. I built the stand for my record albums. I decided to store them like record stores do, in crates so you are able to flip through them. Storing them like that does take up more space than a couple wall shelves, but, finding a specific record will be easier like that. I have made this stand/table large enough to store 8 crates that hold about 100 records a piece. Now, moving my records around to make space I noticed I do have alot of crap records, religious, classical, etc....and artists I really have no interest in, Dean Martin ( God, he made alot of fucking records) Tennessee Ernie Ford, Slim Whitman, crap like that. When I would buy records, I would buy in bulk. If I noticed a few in there I wanted, I would offer for the whole lot. Well, my crates will hold about 800 records, I know I have no where near that many that I want to keep, so I will have the room to expand. The table is not complete yet, I still need to get a top and place shelves on the underside for my baseball cards, but when it's done, It will be sweet.